Sound familiar?
You prioritize others’ needs and neglect your own.
You say “yes” when you want to say “no” to avoid disappointing others.
You feel guilty for asserting yourself or regret staying silent.
Your high expectations make you feel like you’re always falling short.
Disappointing others shakes your sense of self-worth.
You feel trapped in a cycle of never being good enough.

Individual Therapy
You grew up quickly, learning to anticipate others’ needs while setting your own aside. Now, you may find yourself deeply attuned to the world—yet struggling to offer yourself the same understanding. The habits that once kept you safe—people-pleasing, perfectionism, or staying hyper-independent—may now leave you anxious, overextended, and burned out. You might feel torn between generosity and resentment, craving connection but fearing that setting boundaries will push others away.
Therapy offers a space to slow down and explore what’s beneath the overwhelm. Perhaps someone important in your life—like a parent or another influential figure—was dismissive of your needs or showed love conditionally, leaving you feeling exhausted and uncertain of your worth. These early patterns can shape the way you move through the world, making self-doubt, guilt, and emotional depletion feel like the cost of being “good.”
But pushing through isn’t the answer. Together, we’ll uncover the unconscious patterns that keep you stuck, develop tools for self-regulation, and explore new ways of engaging with life’s challenges. As a creative process, therapy invites self-exploration, opens new perspectives, and empowers you to build the resilience needed for a more embodied, fulfilling life. Despite the fear of disappointing others, you’ll come to see how self-compassion and boundaries don’t create distance—they foster deeper, more authentic relationships with both yourself and those around you.
Finding the right therapist is important, and the best way to know if we’re a good fit is to talk. To schedule a free 20-minute consultation, reach out today.
Areas of Focus
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Anxiety
Unpacking the fears that fuel anxiety can help you break free from self-doubt, learn to trust your feelings, set healthy boundaries, and move through life with greater ease.
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Perfectionism
Exploring the roots of your perfectionism in therapy can help you release unrealistic expectations, embrace your worth beyond achievement, and cultivate a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
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Relationship Issues
Becoming familiar with your relationship patterns in therapy can help you identify and heal the dynamics that hinder connection, fostering healthier, more fulfilling relationships with yourself and others.